I Have Never Trusted Drivers — Here’s How I Ride Safer Without Stopping Because of Them
Last Updated: January 2026 Quick Answer: I don’t trust drivers to see me or do the right thing. I ride safer by assuming I’m invisible, then stacking visibility, motion, lighting, positioning, and awareness so drivers can’t ignore me — without giving up riding. I’ve never trusted drivers. Not when I was younger. Not now. Not on quiet back roads or busy city streets. And I’ve never bought into the idea that being “in the right” is the same thing as being safe. I don’t assume drivers see me. I don’t assume they’ll stop. And I definitely don’t assume a bike lane magically protects me. But I also refuse to stop riding because of them. Over the years, I’ve learned something important: safety isn’t about trust — it’s about stacking the odds in your favor. And the way you do that isn’t complicated, trendy, or theoretical. It’s practical, sometimes ugly, and occasionally a little obnoxious. That’s fine by me. I want to be noticed, not stylish. Trusting Dr...